A low-key holiday season
I was talking to a colleague recently, and she said that Christmas at her house is going to be low-key. Just her, her husband, the kids, the dogs, the decorated tree, and a traditional meal. “I am so tired, Sweta,” she said. She’s not alone; so many of my clients and loved ones have been consumed by 2024.
I confessed to her that I too am exhausted. In fact, I told my husband that I wanted to take a week off around Christmastime. But I don’t want to make any commitments (of going out, socializing, inviting anyone over, or attending any gatherings) for 2-3 days during my time off. I need the time to renew, express gratitude, and not have a full calendar.
For those grieving the loss (of a loved one, health, job, marriage, relationship, friendships, home, opportunities, or just about anything else), holidays might not incentivize them to indulge in anything loud, crowded, or over-the-top. Don’t let social media pressures and stereotypes of holiday celebrations bully you into anything you don’t want to do.
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Here are some unique ideas for spending the holidays:
1. Volunteer and Give Back
Community Service: Spend the day volunteering at a local food bank, shelter, or animal rescue. You could serve meals, sort donations, or help with other tasks. You could also help with community events like soup kitchens or coat drives. Many pets need extra care and attention over the holidays.
Donate: Be it time or money to a cause that’s important to you, like a food bank, toy drive, or environmental organization. If music excites you, organize a neighborhood caroling group and serenade your local senior center or nursing home. The residents will appreciate the festive cheer.
Random Acts of Kindness: Plan a day of random acts of kindness, such as paying for someone’s coffee, helping a neighbor with errands, or leaving surprise gifts for strangers.
2. Holiday Retreat
Solo trip: Take a solo vacation. It’s a more reflective time to explore a new place on your own.
Nature Escape: Rent a cabin or cottage in a secluded area. Enjoy outdoor activities like hiking, snowshoeing, or simply enjoying the quiet solitude of nature.
Wellness Retreat: Take a mindful holiday by going to a yoga or meditation retreat to rejuvenate and focus on self-care during a time when many are stressed.
3. Global Holiday Traditions
Cook and Eat Together: Host an “Orphan’s Christmas” for friends who don’t have family nearby or the ones missing a loved one. We did that for Diwali, and it was magical. Create new holiday traditions together—plan a themed party like an ugly sweater party, holiday movie trivia night, or holiday cocktail mixology class.
Host a Cultural Dinner Party: Gather friends or family for a potluck with each person preparing a dish from a different part of the world. This could turn into a culinary adventure of flavors. Let it be a potluck, so you don’t feel overwhelmed.
Travel Abroad: If your finances and schedule permit, explore how holidays are celebrated in different parts of the world. Visit destinations with unique holiday customs, such as the Christmas markets in Germany or Iceland’s tradition of Yule Lads.
4. Staycation with a Twist
Holiday Movie Marathon: Create a themed movie marathon with films that reflect your ideal winter escape—whether it’s snowy mountains, tropical beaches, or something completely quirky like “holiday horror” films. I love Christmas movies centered around small towns, women business owners, and romantic plots. Pair it with hot chocolate, and we are set.
At-Home “Hotel” Experience: Pretend you’re on vacation by turning your home into a luxury hotel. Cook ahead of time and/or order in-take out. Dress in robes and create a spa-like atmosphere for the entire family.
5. Create Your Own Traditions
Memory Jar: Start a tradition of filling a jar with notes throughout the year about your favorite memories, then read them together at the end of the year.
Annual Time Capsule: Each year, fill a box with small items that represent your year—photos, newspaper clippings, trinkets. Seal it and open it a decade later or when you’re ready for a nostalgic look back.
6. Art and Craft Experience
Create Homemade Ornaments: Gather your loved ones to make personalized ornaments. Whether it’s crafting with clay, painting glass baubles, or knitting, you’ll have handmade decorations for years to come.
Holiday-Themed Art Workshop: Take a pottery, painting, or baking class to create festive decorations or gifts. It could be a fun way to bond while making something beautiful and useful.
7. Unplug and Disconnect
Digital Detox: For a few days, turn off all digital devices. Use this time for face-to-face bonding, reading, playing board games, or simply appreciating the present moment. Don’t let people’s reel lives impact your mental health or real life.
Eco-Friendly Holiday: Go low-tech and celebrate sustainably—shop locally, choose eco-friendly gifts, or even try a “no gifts” holiday with a focus on experiences and memories.
8. Unique Family Fun Activities
Holiday Scavenger Hunt: Create a holiday-themed scavenger hunt around your home, neighborhood, or city. Incorporate clues, riddles, and holiday trivia for an exciting adventure.
Family Talent Show: Put on a family talent show where everyone performs something festive, whether it’s a song, dance, skit, or comedy routine. It’s a great way to let loose.
Cookie or Cake Decorating Party: Host a baking and decorating party where everyone gets creative with holiday treats, whether it’s gingerbread houses or elaborate cakes.
9. Outdoor Winter Camping or Glamping
For those who love adventure, winter camping can be a magical experience—especially if you’re staying in a cozy yurt, glamping cabin, or Airstream. Make a fire, enjoy the snow, and bask in the beauty of winter landscapes.
Mixing old and new traditions can make the holidays feel fresh and exciting every year. Choose something that fits your style, whether it’s quiet and reflective or adventurous and energetic, and make the most of the season! Let me know if you need any other holiday activity ideas!
“Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love.”
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