Finding A Personal Vision

Finding A Personal Vision

Q. I notice that my behavior is a reaction or in response to others’ needs or responsibilities that I feel I have to fulfill. So I become very task-oriented and do not feel excited about projects or future possibilities. I often have creative ideas but do not seem to...
A Sudden Feeling of Rage

A Sudden Feeling of Rage

Q. I find that I am spending a lot of time alone. I have a busy job that takes up time in the evenings and on weekends. When I am alone I like to read, take walks, watch TV, surf the Internet, and take naps. Sometimes I just sit and enjoy watching the clouds. When I...
Dealing With Shame and Loneliness

Dealing With Shame and Loneliness

Q. I am a 43-year-old man trying to make a change in my career. My brother and some of my friends are successful professionals. I am a slow starter and haven’t had the best of luck getting my new career going. Recently I applied for a new position in a company, but...
I Am Not the Compliant Person I Was

I Am Not the Compliant Person I Was

Q.Most of my life I have been a sensitive, softer, and more compliant person. Now in my late forties, as I deal with some very difficult blocks in my marriage, I find that I get angry and even fierce on occasion. This is surprising, scary, and liberating. Although I...